A free public reference for the family raising a child with special needs — and the attorneys, CPAs, and financial planners who serve them. Trust architecture, the public-benefit rules that govern SSI and Medicaid, insurance funding mechanics, and a lifecycle map that runs from birth through parental death. Built to sit alongside your attorney’s advice, not replace it.
Every state has a federally-funded Parent Training & Information Center (PTI) — staffed by parents of children with disabilities, trained to walk a family through IEP rights, benefit applications, and the local provider network. It’s free. They will return your call. The state-by-state PTI & CPRC directory is in the guide.
Find your state’s PTI in the guide →The guide is organized so you can read it front-to-back or jump to the part that matches the decision in front of you. Every chapter pairs the mechanic with a plain-English walk and (where the dollars matter) a worked example.
Third-party SNT, first-party d(4)(A) SNT, pooled d(4)(C). When each one is the right tool, who funds it, who serves as trustee, and the beneficiary-discipline rules that keep benefits intact.
SSI resource rules, the $2,000 cliff, ABLE accounts (the $100K SSI suspension trigger, ABLE-to-Work mechanics, $19K 2026 annual limit), Medicaid waiver basics, and the inheritance trap — before it lands or after.
Second-to-die ILIT mechanics, the §2042 inclusion trap, term-vs-permanent for the SNT funding role, beneficiary audits on every retirement account, and the IRC §213(d) medical-deduction walk (with $35K worked example).
Birth through parental death: early-intervention years, IEP transitions, age-of-majority guardianship/supported-decision-making, the post-22 services cliff, employment routes, housing options, and the parental-death handoff plan.
The Letter of Intent reframed warmly. The 30-day starter checklist. The single-parent worked example. How to build the team (attorney, CPA, planner, care coordinator) without commercial directories — using the public-agency rails instead.
The guide ends with six appendices that turn the national rules into the agency you actually call in your state. Each appendix lists the named office, the program, and the public URL.
Plus the front-matter that families use most: a complete index for cross-reference, a 30-day starter checklist sized for a family who just received a diagnosis, and a worked single-parent example showing how the architecture changes when there’s only one income and one decision-maker.
The guide walks the architecture. The four calculators below run the actual math on the family’s actual numbers. All four are free, all four are public, and all four show every line of the math — no black box, no email gate.
Built as the interactive companion to the guide. Use each tool while you read the part of the reference it pairs with — or use any one of them on its own.
SNT Funding sizes the third-party trust against life expectancy. ABLE-vs-SNT shows when each is the right vehicle (and when both). Medicaid Cliff shows what happens to SSI / Medicaid if an inheritance lands — and the d(4)(A) restructuring path if it already has. §213(d) shows how much of the family’s real medical spend is deductible (specialized schooling, caregiver wages, home modifications) above the 7.5% AGI floor.
The four calculators run the math on your numbers. The 110-page reference walks the architecture. The state-by-state appendices route you to the named office in your state. Every piece is free, public, and built to interoperate with the others. No email gate. No upsell. No funnel.
If you want the deeper estate-planning context, the trust mechanics map to Estate Planning Decoded Chapters 16-17, and the trustee-execution side maps to Trust Administration. Both are paid practitioner references — this guide stands on its own.