BTHE BARATELLI INSTITUTE · Mentoring at Scale
Wealth Psychology cover
PRACTITIONER REFERENCE GUIDE · SHIRTSLEEVES TO SHIRTSLEEVES

Wealth Psychology

THE FOUNDING THESIS

"Money doesn't buy happiness — I don't believe that for a second. Money cures a lot of problems, but it creates an enormous amount of different problems."

Once financial needs are met, decisions and lifestyle are no longer money-driven; they are psychology-driven. The wealth-creator's rags-to-riches story is rarely shared by the next generation in the way the founder built it. 70% of wealthy families lose their fortune by the second generation, 90% by the third — shirtsleeves to shirtsleeves in three generations. Wealth Psychology is the reference for the practitioner having the underneath conversation: the founder afraid to retire, the next-gen who hasn't been told what's coming, the spouse who manages the household but doesn't know the trust structure, the recent widow facing the first joint return alone, the grandchild far enough from the founding to no longer share the willingness to sacrifice. The Pack is what prevents the third-generation slide. Written with input from a clinical psychologist who specializes in HNW families.

12chapters
221page PDF
11tab workbook
9working instruments
VERSION 1.0 Published: 2026-07-13 Last updated: 2026-07-13 Sources current as of: See sources cited within
★ FREE PREVIEW PDF · 12 PAGES
Wealth Psychology Free Preview — The Builder (First-Generation Inheritance Problem)
Cover, full table of contents, generated Reading Map by Role, and the complete Chapter 9 — The First Generation's Inheritance Problem (the Builder). The opening chapter of the three-generation arc the 2026 rebuild centered the back half on. No email required.
Download PDF →
★ FREE COMPANION REFERENCE · 110 PAGES
Special Needs Family Financial Planning — the family emotional architecture nobody else covers
A child with special needs reshapes a family’s emotional architecture as completely as inheritance or liquidity ever could — usually with less warning, less language, and fewer people who’ve done it before. The 110-page free reference covers SNT architecture, ABLE accounts, the SSI / Medicaid rules, lifecycle planning, the Letter of Intent reframed warmly, and four free calculators. Pairs with the WP framework on family-system dynamics. Free, no email gate.
Open the reference →

Who this guide is for

The guide is written for the actual professionals who do this work — and the people who serve them. Each section contains material that will be useful to multiple audiences, but the persona-routing table below tells you where to start.

You are…Start with these chapters
Family-office principal facilitating family meetingsCh 4 Family Money Dynamics · Ch 6 Governance as Psychology · Ch 5 Next-Generation Preparation · Ch 12 The Long Game
Wealth advisor having the difficult callCh 3 Advisor-Principal Dynamics · Ch 2 Behavioral Biases · Ch 8 Crisis, Loss & Behavioral Response · Ch 7 Decision-Making Frameworks
Estate attorney advising a reluctant founderCh 9 The First Generation’s Inheritance Problem · Ch 6 Governance as Psychology · Ch 10 The Second Generation’s Choice
Therapist or coach working with a HNW familyRead front-to-back, but read the Clinical Distinction section first — it sets the referral boundary this guide operates inside. The financial references throughout are the vocabulary; the psychological architecture should already be your first language.
Founder thinking about what comes afterCh 1 The Psychology of Wealth · Ch 9 The First Generation’s Inheritance Problem · Ch 12 The Long Game

Table of contents

Page numbers are from the delivered 2026 edition.

Front matter
·About the Founder's Voicep5
·Clinical Distinction — Please Read Firstp6
·About This Guide — How to Usep7
·A Note on Indexed Figuresp9
·Introductionp11
Chapters
1The Psychology of Wealthp15
2Behavioral Biases in High-Stakes Financial Decisionsp34
3Advisor-Principal Dynamicsp53
4Family Money Dynamicsp67
5Next-Generation Preparation & Wealth Readinessp83
6Governance as Psychologyp98
7Decision-Making Frameworks for Complex Wealth Situationsp113
8Crisis, Loss & Behavioral Response Under Financial Stressp127
9The First Generation’s Inheritance Problem (the Builder)p140
10The Second Generation’s Choice (the Inheritor)p149
11The Third Generation’s Test (the Restorer)p157
12The Long Game: Mental Models for Multi-Generational Preservationp165
Back matter
·A Closing Notep179
·Behavioral-Bias Quick Referencep180
·Difficult Conversations Libraryp185
·Advisor-Side Biases Addendump192
·Practitioner Discipline Addenda (cross-chapter)p196
·Sources & Citationsp205
·Glossaryp207
·Index of Termsp215
·About the Authorp218

Preview the inside pages

Sample pages from the actual guide — cover, table of contents, persona routing, sample chapter openers, and back matter. These are the actual pages that ship; not marketing renders.

What's actually in the bundle

1. The reference guide (PDF)

221 pages. Twelve chapters, front matter that sets the clinical boundary, and practitioner back matter — Behavioral-Bias Quick Reference, Difficult Conversations Library, Advisor-Side Biases Addendum, Practitioner Discipline Addenda, Sources & Citations, Glossary, and a page-referenced Index of Terms. Searchable, hyperlinked TOC and index. Single-user license.

2. The companion workbook (XLSX)

Eleven tabs, nine working instruments: Bias Inventory, Advisor-Client Dynamics, Client Risk Profile, Decision Framework, Family Money Dynamics, Next-Gen Preparation, Crisis Response, Advisor Self-Assessment, and Wealth Identity.

Plus: Free live tools derived from this guide

Free interactive tools at tools.baratelliinstitute.com run the math from the guide on your scenario. No purchase required.

About the author

PB

Philip A. Baratelli, CPA, MBA — Founder, Baratelli Institute. Ponte Vedra Beach, Florida.

three decades in operating finance and M&A (a CPA since 1995). The guides in this library are the references he wished existed when he was doing the work.

✓  30-day money-back guarantee
Walk into your next advisor, lender, or boardroom conversation already fluent in the numbers and the moves — a more informed partner to the professionals you work with, and clear-eyed on the cost of getting a big decision wrong. If it isn’t worth many times what you paid, take the refund.

Wealth Psychology

$99 Single-user license · 221-page PDF + 11-tab Excel workbook
Buy on Gumroad →
Also in paperback
The same text is available as a paperback on Amazon for $19.99. The paperback is the book only. The edition on this page adds the companion Excel workbook, a searchable and hyperlinked PDF, free updates for 12 months, and a license that also covers a delegate working on the same client file. A Kindle edition is $9.99.
Paperback on Amazon — $19.99 →

Want every guide always current + the Brief paid layer + monthly office hours?